Should We Expect Betrayal in Relationships?

Should we expect betrayal in relationships?

"Those who are faithless know the pleasures of love; it is the faithful who know love's tragedies" — Oscar Wilde

My mom always tells me to never let my guard down when it comes to men, even though you expect them to be but they're not perfect. Even though all relationships have some form of duplicity, Relationships should never include betrayal because it can be hard to trust again after deceit is involved and disloyalty can break up relationships.

All relationships have some form of duplicity. According to Cheatingstatisitics.com- A recent survey conducted in the USA found some interesting statistics on cheating and divorce rates. No doubt infidelity is a serious problem that often leads to divorce or damaged relationships, but the numbers are a little surprising to me: only 19 percent of people who were cheated on ended the relationship right away. 22 percent eventually broke up because they couldn't get over the betrayal - See more at: http://www.cheatingstatistics.com/statistics-on-cheating/#sthash.lzJoDOmT.dpuf

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me with a friend of mine that stayed with me while I was in my bedroom sleep. I tried to get over it but because it was so hurtful to me, I couldn't deal with it anymore I had to leave him. I felt used, betrayed and like I couldn't be in another relationship.

My brother is a great example of someone who will betray in a relationship. From what I see is that he wants the girl to want him but he also want to do what he wants. He tries to make sure that he knows exactly where his girlfriend is so he can go and meet up another girl.

Another example that shows that all relationships have some form of duplicity is according to womansaver.com-According to a poll from WomanSavers.com, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith have the strongest Hollywood marriage. In another WomanSaver's poll of over 133,000 women, 56% caught their man cheating red handed and another