Oceans of Expectations

OCEAN OF EXPECTATIONS….

It happens, to all….n then things are different. Expectations are different, who says life can be without expectations, and everyone has some. In my case I think there is an overdose of expectations, I don't feel so but others do. I ask is it wrong to expect from someone who is close to you. Are they not the only people from whom you expect? Then why people who are close, get irritated when you expect a little more from them.

In my opinion, I don't think you make one mad when you expect a little extra from that special someone. After all making that special person feel special should make you happy. But unfortunately that is not the case and can be found only in fairy tales.

There's nothing wrong expecting someone to be beside you when you walk in the crowd, or to wipe those tears and give that power hug when it is most needed or just some sweet words when "expected".

A little extra care, a tinch of extra love is all that is being asked for. But things are often misunderstood and are taken some other way. May be all that the person wants is love and wants it to be shown, want it to be felt without any hesitation. May be because the person was deprived of that special love and all that the heart wants is that special feeling.

You cannot make the person realize this each time cause then what it means is simple, "you don't see the other person's effort and you don't understand". Well all I want to say here is that it's not about understanding, it's about what you feel, and it's about the heart's feelings, the emotions, the love and the care.

So the best thing to do here is, keep things inside and don't let them out. There is no control on the emotions and also the expectations. They will flow at their own pace. So it's better to learn to wipe your own tears and hug yourself to the pillow.