Letter to My Future Son

Letter to my future son

My dear son,

        As every parent in the world, your coming will be a big surprise for me. Though, now I have no confidence in I will well fulfill my duty as a mother, I wish I have prepared when you come years later, or I will learn to be a good mother along your growing. Being a 20-year-old lady at present, I can’t boast of experienced. But I have been thinking a lot about the life you will have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I have learned, I still want to share something most important with you.

        The first thing, which I even believe that it is a truth, is love is the golden rule of life. It might sound cliché, but trust me, there is no better rule in life. When you are gradually grow up, you will realize that life won’t always turn out the way you want, and it can be cruel sometimes. There will be people who like to tease you, bully you because you are different, or for no good reason. At this stage, if you cannot change their attitudes toward you, remember don’t hate them or answer blows with blows, because hating them is not a solution of the problem and this negative emotion will bring you bad mood. As for “an eye for an eye” is not a civilized person’s business. Try to love them, love those enemies in your life. They may give you many miserable times, however, changing a new perspective you will find in a manner they are catalyst of your growing. In addition, your tolerant love is the most useful medicine to cure illness between you. As for this, I have a story to tell you. I met a girl who played a double game on me in high school. She pretended to be my best friend and treated me different from others, and I was really moved by her. What out of my imagination was that she always provoked me and other classmates behind the scenes. Finally, I knew the whole thing and I was heartbroken but I forgave her instead of revenging her. Now, she is one of my good friends, feeling sorry for what she has done for me with a grateful heart for my forgiveness. I hope the story will help you to see a ray of love’s magic and dispel your doubt of love.