Practical Compromise During Divorce

Practical Compromise During Divorce

Sharonee Davis

BSHS/406

August 08, 2016

DR. Tanisha Laidler

Practical Compromise during Divorce

Divorce affects more than just the married couple, children, family, and friends are also affected from divorce. Sometimes children feel that they have to choose sides, and family members may feel uncomfortable around their ex in-law. With some compromises divorce can be less stressful. I will talk about some practical compromises that would be beneficial for children, family and friends that experiencing divorce.

Children

Parents have to be honest with their children and let them know the reason why they are getting a divorce. Parents do not have to go into a full detail just try keeping it short and simple. Parents can also have a healthy relationship with each other, and explain to the children any changes that may occur. Parents should communicate directly with each other and not through their child, this will help reduce conflict. Parents need to listen to their children feelings and concerns about the divorce and make them your top priority. (Helpguide.org)

Grandparents

Grandparents do not have to choose sides. Grandparents must not blame either parents for the divorce. Parents should not keep the grandchild away from their grandparents due to the divorce, the parents are the ones that are going through divorce not the children and grandparents. Grandparents should never speak badly about their former in-law, they are still your grandchildren parent. Grandparents should be supportive of their children and not take sides