Practical Compromise During Divorce

Practical Compromise During Divorce

Concepcion De Los Rios

BSHS/406

November 24, 2016

Professor: Debby

Practical Compromise During Divorce

        The unexpected changes and transition period during the divorce process requires a great

amount of effort of compromise from both parents, mainly when there are children involved.  

Divorce most often demands both parents to restructure their personal lives in ways that will

allow both parents to have a continued parenting relationship with the child / children

(McGoldrick, Carter & Garcia-Preto, 2011). As a human service professional, it is tough enough

to see so many people go through hard times that are brought on by economic as well as society

issues however, it is a bit harder when having to see so many individuals go through the downfall

and hard times that divorce offers.  Parents are not the only ones that are affected by divorce,

children, other family members, friends, Co-workers, etc.  There are a few great compromises

that are recommended in order to see a positive effect of the downfall of a divorce, that can also

be great help throughout the whole process. Both parents should keep all communication outlet’s

open no matter how they both feel towards each other. Being able to communicate in an

appropriate, calm and civil way toward each other and others within the family is always a good

thing when children are involved.  Making sure that the children are organized, engaged, and

able to communicate well with both parents and everyone else involved will help the children

through the divorce process make it so much more of a smooth transition for them. It would also

be a good idea not to make too many sudden and significant changes when it has to do with the

child / children. It is easier on a child if he or she stays on their regular routine including all the

normal activities that they may be involved in.

        At one point or another having to go to court will be in the picture, and also one parent or

the other will eventually have to find another place to live, so it would be a good idea that when

this part of the process takes place, the children go visit with grandparents in order for them not