Can You Control the Happiness or Happiness Is Part of Your Personality?

Can you control the happiness or happiness is part of your personality?

This a question that keeps my mind busy, whether we can control our happiness or not, what happiness is. Happiness is one of the many feeling in human kind that sometimes you maybe able to control it.

I think happiness depend on your life style, personality, people around you, culture that you grew up with, plus some other external and internal elements. We can not expect to be happy all the time but we are able to create a situation that to prevent the sadness. Sadness is the contrary with happiness which it exists and affects our feeling and our life. Therefore, it is essential to create an environment without stress and full of hops.

You are happy when you hear compliments. It tells you there are some values in you that make other people impress. Knowing that there are people who like you, respect you, and care about you makes you happy and affects your life in a good way.

You maybe able to control your feeling but there are some other elements and moments that affect your feeling including happiness. You cannot control your feeling and be happy when you lose your loved one. Happiness and sadness are together and either of them doesn’t have any meaning without the other one.

Sometimes you can control your happiness s by thinking about the pleasant events in your life. Eighteen years ago, when I moved to United State of America, I wasn’t happy and I lost my self-esteem and confidence. Soon after, I realized without happiness I will lose my hops and I won’t be able to achieve my goals and have a good happy family.

I believe happiness is a feeling that cannot be control completely by you, but helps your motivation, makes you to have a strong personality, and helps you to make the good decisions. Happiness improves your friendship. At the end I’d like to add a proverb that tells about happiness and sadness.